Monday, July 31, 2006

Mindsets

The mess in the middle-east is getting worse with every passing day. I must say, whatever sympathy I had for Israel, has in the last few days, with their incessant attacks on civilian targets, completely disappeared. Strategically, Israel's stance has been one of obstinate stupidity. In their unrestrained bombing of Lebanon they have actually managed to raise the popularity of insane groups like H' to an unprecedented high in a matter of 15 days. In addition, their bombing is achieving nothing more than destroying lives and livelihoods of civilians. Clearly, H' is not going to be disarmed, not to mention, given the nature of current insurgency based politics, the worst attacks including 9/11, have little or nothing to do with military might. So really, this Rumsfieldian 'shock and awe' approach is only reducing Israel to shockingly low moral standards and leaving absolutely nobody in awe.

Which brings me to my thesis: For a long while, peaceniks like me have advocated that war indeed never solves problems, excepting for the very small set of instances in which force is necessary to stop an atrocious situation and when 'victory' will mark a clear end to such situations. Other than that, violence only begets more violence and clearly if that were not true we would not be fighting over land after all these centuries, that too in the name of God! (Absolutely nothing has changed!) Surely the mighty, would have conquered and ruled. But instead, we have seen that in the recent past the most interesting victories in have been those of conscience, not of military might. The Civil Rights movement in America, the Indian Independence movement, the anti-apartheid movement in South Africa ... the rare instance when violence was acceptable: World War II. Instead, the sun has indeed set on the might of the British Empire and Hitler was vanquished and their atrocities have been condemned by the whole world. Unfortunately, these lessons are lost on our leaders who, disappoint me with their complete lack of judgement. They seem to have inherited the age-old mindset of a powerful nation being one of great military prowess and might.

Such a mindset is at the very root of many of the problems in the middle-east today (not enough space, but consider the history of how many of these extremist militias and authoriatarian governments were created by covert military support). And as Einstien said, it is not possible to solve a problem with the same mindset that created it. That war mongering has lead to more war mongering and is projecting no 'sustainable solutions' in the future is a clear example of that. Instead the sustainable solutions (or at least approximations to such) have come from countering the very mindsets that embodied the problems. (Consider, once again, each of the movements I mentioned above).

If only these people in charge would realize the stupidity of their actions and the massacres that they are unleashing on innocent civilians and children. Alas!

Thursday, July 27, 2006

Continuity

I went back to S. last week after a year. The 5 days seemed to fly. In fact, I had so many people to meet, lunch and dine with that I barely got a minute to sit. However, I am not complaining. It was just like going back home … the same familiarity; the same love … did not feel like I had ever left. Of course, the last year has left its scars on the city, a couple of buildings have been pulled down, a few new restaurants have come up, and construction on the light rail has started … but the coffee is still brewing strong and its still getting cloudy and peak hour traffic still makes me wonder if maybe another bridge across the lake really would not be such a bad idea. It was good to be back and I am already looking forward to my next trip.

I also said good-bye to a dear friend, philosopher and guide, B., who breathed his last earlier in the summer. A touching service was held on Sunday night in his memory as we all sat around and reminisced him. Constructing the rich personality that he was by piecing together each of our different perspectives and experiences with him over a period of a decade and a half. The diversity of the motley gathering reflected how he managed to attract and bring together his students from every discipline and every continent only to send them out enthused with the very vigor and lively intellectual vibrancy that he exemplified. By uniting people, nurturing open minds and connecting ideas lay the realization of his vision and the success of his life’s work. It is sad that he is no more, and that he has left us so early, but it was also a pleasure to tie and tassel the loose end of the bright and colorful thread, that was his life, that he weaved far and wide across the tapestry of human experience.

I also spent some time with an old friend who had recently lost her father in an untimely fashion. While the passing was beautiful and painless for him, the suddenness of it left my friend and the rest of her family deeply traumatized. It broke my heart listening to her talk about the entire experience. At the same time I admire her for having effectively navigated such troubled waters, while maintaining her own sanity and being a support to her family.

I attended service on Sunday at the UU congregation in my old neighborhood. The service on the passage of the soul and its health in life was refreshing to hear and left me a little calmer. It helped me get some solace and put my friend’s trauma and B’s passing in perspective. On the other hand, it also helped me realize that my greatest fear of all is not my own mortality as much as it is the fear of loosing my loved ones. It reaffirms the need to love all we know in sincerity, the need to rise above the trivial, for who knows when this fragility that we take for granted will give away to loss and grief.

While death is indeed the ultimate absolution, and indeed the only truth that none of us can escape … Love and the acknowledgement of Life really is what we have to construct our continuity in the very face of our immortality.

Tuesday, July 11, 2006

Bombay (Mumbai)

And as the city wakes up today after the huge shock last night, I am PROUD to say that YES BOMBAY IS BOUNCING BACK. From what I hear on the BBC, the city is back to what it is most loved for ... its vibrance ... injured, hurt, but vibrant all the same.

My prayers for the city ... though given my definition of 'prayer', Bombay needs none, she has enough Mumbaikars who are ready to live and love ... and therein lies her strength.

Visit this site.

I find it strange that the Police are being very reluctant about making a pronouncement on responsibility ... though I am glad that that they are being objective. The act is deplorable and I'd rather get an answer from the authorities based on data rather than random conjectures (there was an "informed opinion" on BBC which blamed it squarely on Pakistan).

Outrage!

The bomb attacks on the local commuter train system in Bombay is an outrage against humanity. Having spent a very memorable time in the city and having lived and worked around some of the very stations that were attacked, I am naturally feeling hurt by the incident. I cannot imagine the plight of the families who have lost their near and dear ones in the blast.

THIS IS AN OUTRAGE.

On the one hand we keep furthering and pursuing dialogues on tolerance. We seek to build inclusive open societies, we hope to dismantle barriers and treat all women and men alike and yet ... all such efforts are marred by such violent acts of cowardice and intolerance.

There can be no tolerance for intolerance. And even as I bawl in my anger I know that all I am spewing is intolerance ... yet, can we tolerate such acts of cowardice? It undermines the very fundamental assumptions that society functions on.

I don't know how to condole all the families who lost their own, or for that matter how to console the very people who met their untimely end, and in reality this is an inconsoleable loss. However, I do hope and pray for the following:
-> The Indian government can bring justice in the short run while focusing on long term solutions to growing Islamic fundamentalism
-> That Indians inspite of their hurt can stand up and face tomorrow with courage and hard work (as we have before) and also that other extremist factions don't cease on this to unleash what happened in Guajarat

A prayer for Peace ... or at least, some close approximation of it!

Sunday, July 02, 2006

Meme-ed!

Hmmm! So I got tagged and now I have to do a Meme for me! Well before I start there are 2 observations I feel obliged to make.

Even though Cabbages and Kings cautions us against confusing with the Meme tool, interestingly this meme business is connected to all the viruses and DNA replication and so on (my background in biology is limited). It is in fact defined as:

meme: (pron. 'meem') A contagious idea that replicates like a virus, passed on from mind to mind. Memes function the same way genes and viruses do, propagating through communication networks and face-to-face contact between people. The root of the word "memetics," a field of study which postulates that the meme is the basic unit of cultural evolution. Examples of memes include melodies, icons, fashion statements and phrases.

Read more about it here.


And as we are on the topic of cultural evolution, I feel obliged to compare this current blog rendition of a meme to silly old chain mails ... In fact thats what they primarily are with an extra dollop of pleaurable guilt... comprising of a mixture of narcisistic indulgence and exhibitionism... and I guess, thats what makes it entirely bearable, unlike the chain mails that were burdened with altruistic intentions. In fact, the chain mail was a little more robust in structure. It came with various fortune related incentives and disincentives that would surely befall the faithful if they broke the chain. This "meme" business actually has no reinforcing mechanism ... or maybe its the certainty that everybody will want to talk about themselves that does the trick. It still leaves one the opportunity not to tag anybody else (no incentives!), but then again, its fairly certain that within every exhibitionist hides a vouyer, and that does the trick, as each one of us go from exposing to viewing!!

Anyway, me and myself have decided to indulge.

I am thinking about...
not thinking any more.

I said...
"Haven't I already said enough?"

I want to...
drink a Bombay and tonic.

I wish...
I could get a new laptop

I hear…
... birds chirping

I wonder...
what its like beyond the rainbow

I regret...
not having any warm feelings

I am...
trying to type in reasonable responses about me

I dance...
by myself

I sing...
Sunshine on my shoulders ...

I cry...
Sunshine in my eyes can make me cry

I am not always...
at the bar downtown ... just sometimes.

I make with my hands...
what my mind imagines

I write...
papers and proposals

I confuse...
names

I need...
a glove

I tag:
Prash
The Drunken Goat Farm

Whew!!! I feel like I have done my duty and can safely stake my membership to the community of "meme" bloggers.